When a man’s meditation is growing, a woman’s love should grow.
Only then can they keep pace, and a higher harmony will arise and it will go on, higher and higher.
And a moment comes when the man is totally in meditation and the woman is totally in love – then only the PERFECT meeting, then only the real, supreme orgasm between two persons.
Not physical, not sexual – total!
Two existences meeting into each other, dissolving.
Then the lover becomes the door, the beloved becomes the door, and they both reach to the one. So whosoever comes to me should come perfectly aware that it is dangerous to be near me. Your old arrangements will be disturbed – and I cannot help it. I am not here to help your adjustments; that is for you to decide. I can help you grow – grow in meditation, grow in love.
To me, both words mean the same, because they reach to the same end.
OSHO