You become aware of your own depth only when somebody else touches it.
Only through the other do you become aware of your inner being;
only in deep relationship does somebody's love resound in you
and bring your depth into being.
Only through somebody else do you discover yourself.
There are two ways of discovery.
One is meditation — without the other you search for the depth;
another is love — with the other you search for the depth.
He becomes a root to reach to yourself.
The other creates a circle,
and both lovers help each other.
The deeper love goes,
the deeper they feel they are;
their inner-beings are revealed.
OSHO